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Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Fourth of July: Freedom and Decency



 The following are all quotes from an essay by an Eastern Orthodox theologian and professor, David Bentley Hart. I know it is a lot of "academic" verbiage to wade through, but I found his thoughts on freedom very thought-provoking and I find myself agreeing with a lot of what he has to say.

"This is the crucial issue, I think: not what we understand decency to be, but what we mean when we speak of freedom. [. . . ] We have come to believe—more or less unreflectively—that the will necessarily becomes more free the more it is emancipated from whatever constraints it suffers.”

Hart, David Bentley, “Freedom and Decency”  In the Aftermath: Provocations and Laments, p.77

“[. . .] freedom is possible only through constraints [. . .] True freedom, at least according to one venerable definition, is the realization of a complex nature in its proper good (that is, in both its natural and supernatural ends); it is the freedom of a thing to flourish, to become ever more fully what it is.  An absolutely ‘negative liberty’—the absence of any religious, cultural, or social restrictions upon the exercise of the will—may often seem desirable (at least for oneself) but ultimately offers only the ‘freedom’ of chaos, of formless potential.

[. . . .] For instance, if one wishes to become honorable (a word so quaint and antique as now to have the power to charm but not to compel), one must accede to any number of elaborate restrictions upon one’s actions and even thoughts; and these restrictions unquestionably confine and inhibit desire and volition, and are themselves often more a matter of ritual comity and factitious grace and painful reserve than of practical necessity.  And yet, as one learns to consent to a common and demanding set of conventions and duties, one also progressively acquires an ever greater purity of character, a stability and hence identity, a unified ‘self’; one emerges from the inchoate turmoil of mere emotion, and is liberated from the momentary impulses and vain promptings of the will, and arrives at what can truly be called one’s essence.  The form, as Michelangelo liked to say, is liberated from the marble.”

[. . . .] This understanding of freedom, however, requires not only a belief that we possess an actual nature, which much flourish to be free, but a belief in the transcendent Good towards which that nature is oriented.  This Christians, Jews, and virtuous pagans have always understood: that which can endure in us is sustained by that which lies beyond us, in the eternity of its own plentitude. To be fully free is to be joined to that end for which our natures were originally framed, and for which—in the deepest reaches of our souls—we ceaselessly yearn.  And whatever separates us from that end—even if it be our own power of choice within us—is a form of bondage.  We are free not because we can choose, but only when we have chosen well [. . .] The consummation for which we should long, if we are wise, is that ultimately we shall, in St. Augustine’s language, achieve not only the liberty enjoyed by Adam and Eve—who were merely ‘able not to sin’—but the truest freedom of all, that of being entirely ‘unable to sin’, because God’s will works perfectly in ours.”

Hart, David Bentley, “Freedom and Decency”  In the Aftermath: Provocations and Laments, p.78-9

“Democracy is not an intrinsic good, after all.  Where the moral formation of a people is deficient, the general will malign, or historical circumstance unpropitious, is quite unambiguously wicked in its results [. . .] And a society that can no longer conceive of freedom as anything more than limitless choice and uninhibited self-expression must of necessity progressively conclude that all things should be permitted, that all values are relative, that desire fashions its own truth, that there is no such thing as ‘nature,’ that we are our own creatures.  The ultimate consequence of a purely libertarian political ethos, if it could be taken to its logical end, would be a world in which we would no longer even remember that we should want to choose the good, as we would have learned to deem things good solely because they have been chosen.  This would in truth be absolute slavery to the momentary, the final eclipse of rational dignity, the triumph within us of the bestial over the spiritual, and so of death over life.”

Hart, David Bentley, “Freedom and Decency”  In the Aftermath: Provocations and Laments, p.80

Sunday, June 17, 2012

World Travelers

Elin on the left, me on the right. She has white hair, I am bald. And we drink wine.
Elin wants me to do the writing, because I am the funny one (she said it). I told her that funny can't be forced, but we'll see what I can come up with. So last night we went to Rudi Lechner's (Check it out here), a German-Austrian restaurant a couple of miles from our apartment. It was awesome. While most of the servers were definitely not German, the rest of the place was. We were serenaded by accordion, tuba and guitar. We heard that song "A knapsack on my back," and were encouraged to join in on the "val-der-ee, val-der-ah," etc. We also heard Edelweiss twice, and a song that said "I don't want her, you can take her, she's too fat for me." It was lovely. The food was good, too, and as far as we know, very German. We had schnitzel and strudel and bratwurst and another -wurst, and sauerkraut and some other red spiced cabbage. I had some of the leftovers for breakfast and lunch, and will probably have some more in the next few meals. If anyone comes to visit us while we are in Houston, we can go there. Wednesdays are Oktoberfest!

John. Delys and Co. came to visit us our second weekend in Houston. We took a drive down to the coast (1.5 hrs) to spend some time at the beach. The beaches in Texas aren't that pretty and the water is not very clear, at least compared to the beaches in Australia, where we usually spend our time (see previous posts). The reason is the Gulf current. It flows counter clockwise, so all the sediments from the Mississippi River come this way, instead of towards Florida. I know this because I am a geologist. The water is nice and warm though. And if I had a boogey board it would have been put to good use. It was nice to be in the sun and water and have the company of the Tylers.


Elin and baby Ben, Surfside Beach, TX.

Me. I had to check out the water.

Katie, John, Delys, and Ben.

Check out the waves. The reason it is called Surfside?
Over Mother's Day we flew up to Frannie. Well, we flew into Billings, Montana, and drove down to Frannie. The forecast for Dallas that day, which we had just left, called for 95 degree weather, so I was glad to be gone. Little did I know that by the time we actually would get to Frannie the temps would have dropped to 40 degrees. A fifty degree swing is pretty severe. Luckily things warmed up and the weather was nice for the rest of our time there. The water at the Deaver Reservoir wasn't quite as warm as the water in the Gulf, though. Elin wanted to do a weeny roast, so we went to the reservoir and had one. It is a good thing we had hotdogs to eat, since no fish were caught. I haven't spent a lot of time fishing there, but enough to know it is basically impossible to catch a fish. Anybody who says otherwise is probably lying. I did catch a crawdad though. Quick hands.

For Mother's Day we took a page out of Logan's book and prepared a five-course meal for Mom, Grandma, and for some reason, Dad. I should have made Elin sit at the table while we took care of it, but let's be honest, it would have been a debacle. This was the menu: butternut squash soup, caprese salad, shrimp orzo pasta with fresh vegetables, cedar plank salmon, finished by a berry trifle accented with elderflower juice. Homemade lime sorbet was the palate cleanser, and the beverage was elderflower soda. It was pretty awesome.

Check out the ripples. Deaver Reservoir. Russell on the left, me on the right. Russell fell in.

Explaining the finer points of marinading cedar-planked salmon.

The salmon, and what is left of the cedar plank. I was in charge of the marinading. Russell was in charge of the grilling.

Our respective mothers, and dad, enjoying the Mother's Day 5-course feast.
Back in April, when it looked like Ben and Ryanne would soon be leaving the country, we took a quick trip over to Gonzales, LA, to visit them. Ryanne documented the trip in their blog, but we'll add our two cents. Even though Texas borders Lousianna, it was still about 8 hours to their place. Ben was at work when we arrived, so Ryanne took us to a plantation that was nearby. It was pretty neat there. The house was filled with a lot of history and relics of the era. The tour leader said the average height of the women at the time was 4 ft, and men, 5 ft. I don't believe that. The average height for women now is 5'2" (so I have heard), which would mean it has increased 14 inches in 150 years. No way. The rest of the tour seemed to be accurate though. I know this because I am a geologist.

After the tour we picked Ben up from work. On the way home we stopped at a little village/shops of former slave quarters and ate some delicious beignets, pronounce benyays. You can tell that is French because most of the letters are there for no reason. We also saw some gators there. That night we went out to a cajun restaurant and had some delicious food. Most of this blog is about food, I noticed. Over the next day and a half we played our new favorite game, Telestrations, played with Stella who made the trip, played some basketball (not Elin or Ryanne), a little bit of Halo (not Elin, much to everyone's disappointment), visited the French Quarter in New Orleans, and went to church. As always, Ben and Ryanne were the true delight of the trip.

On our way to Gonzales, LA, to visit B&R. It was hard to believe you could get there by car; a lot of the trip was spent on bridges over bayous.

Life on the plantation. Our future home. I am not sure where we are going to find people to take care of it these days...


French Market, NO, LA.
Finally, I got this picture from Nathan a few weeks ago, and had to put it up here. Boston and Guatemala next on the list?
Wil and me on the Manly Ferry, Australia. He loves me.

Saturday, March 31, 2012

How you going?

At Bondi Beach with nephews Beckett and Wil.
Yes, that is how Wil smiles on demand.

... and "Good day, mate," "No worries," and "Take out the rubbish." That is just a small sample of the lingo we were privileged to during our recent trip Down Under. That is right, we went on a little trip to Australia, to visit Nathan, Lindsay and the boys. We brought back a wombat and a koala bear too. Unfortunately they are fake; the price we paid for them would make you think they must be real, however. But I don't want this blog to sound like Elin is complaining.

We had a delightful time in Sydney. Elin enjoyed sitting in the house and reading books she could read anywhere in the world, and I enjoyed seeing the sites, swimming at Bondi beach, eating kangaroo meat and other exotic wonders. I figure if you are going to fly literally halfway around the world, you should at least act like you are halfway around the world. That is also my justification for wearing a speedo to the beach. I'll let you imagine what that looked like, considering my svelte new 230 lb body.

Forrest and Wil building sandcastles at Bondi


The view from Bondi

Much to most of your disappointment, I, being Elin, am going to take over from here, because Forrest went to go shower. I don't have the wit and charm he possesses, but at least I can set a few things straight. Like how I didn't just sit in the house and read the entire time I was in Sydney. Indeed, I did read two books while I was there, but I am a fast reader and it was while we were all at the house or while I was sitting on the glorious beach. I saw as many sights as Forrest did, although he did not think I was near as enthusiastic as I should be. Nonetheless, Australia is gorgeous and we are both forever grateful for Nathan and Lindsay's hospitality. Here are just some of the wonders we experienced while we were there:

Standing (elin) and Swimming (forrest) in real ocean waves.
Riding the ferry from Sydney to Manly
Trip to Budderoo National Park = amazing waterfalls and a rainforest
Visit to Darling Harbor, the Chinese Gardens, and Wildlife World
Tour of Sydney on the Big Red Bus
Stopping at an Australian pie shop and eating the most delicious berry and cream pie on earth
Experiencing fish and chips in a location from which you can actually see the ocean
Picnicking at the Botanical Gardens


Here is the Sydney Bridge. The Opera house is nearby.


Forrest in front of the Dragon Wall at the Chinese Gardens


Nathan and Oliver and your two narrators.
I am holding Wil's plastic crocodile, in case any of you are wondering. He must have dropped it one of the times he hit the ground while he was running around. He scraped up both knees pretty bad.


And now, though I vowed at one time that I would never take pictures with the mere purpose of showing a baby bump, because Rachell has now asked nicely twice, I have done what I vowed never to do. And I must say, I felt like this was a mug shot or something. So Rachell, these are for you, because I love you and miss you. I would have included some of the ultrasound pictures but they are too blurry. Apparently she is an active little thing. The doctor said she looked "long of limb." Hmmmm, no surprise there. But much to Forrest's satisfaction, the doctor noticed she has a prominent chin. Thank you, Roberts and/or Allred genes for the blessing of facial bone structure. That certainly is not a trait that my family enjoys.

I definitely look wider, anyway....

It's not really a bump, per se. More like, everything between my sternum and hips is pushing outwards.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Addendum to Texas

My observation on Texas being conservative, and Austin not, has caused some confusion which must be cleared up. It sounds like I support Austin seceding from Texas. I do. Not because I want to be in a liberal Austin, but because I would like to keep Texas pure. I guess I think of myself as a Texan more than an Austinite.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Texas

We have now been in Texas for 4 months, and it is probably time for me to post a blog about my impressions and observations.

Is everything truly bigger in Texas? Unfortunately, no. But almost everything is. Including addresses. Our current address is 12610 Riata Trace Pkwy Apt 338, Austin, Texas, 78727. Our former address was 258 N 400 W Apt 3, Provo, Utah, 84601. See how much longer it is? 51 characters (plus spaces) to 37. You might think this is a strange thing to notice, or care about. It is. But the reason I noticed is because one of the things that is not bigger in Texas is the address line on forms, slips, etc. I can never fit our entire address into the space that is provided! It reminds me of a Calvin and Hobbes, posted below.


Another thing that is bigger in Texas: the ethnic population. We ate at CiCi's the other day, a pizza buffet. We were the only whities in the place for about forty-five minutes, when another of us showed up.

Texans are very polite and friendly. An example: I take the bus from my research campus to the main campus, and as we get off the bus every single person thanks the bus driver for driving us around, like he is doing it out of the goodness of his heart. The first time I noticed this I assumed that everybody had some kind of in with the driver. It's like getting off an airplane, where the flight attendants and pilots say goodbye to every passenger. Reminds me of two movies, clips below.





Only the first 10 seconds or so.


A couple of weeks ago I was entering the grocery store, when I heard a man ask a lady who was about to leave the parking lot if she was a roller derby girl. She had two kids, had to be 38 or so. She said yes. Awesome.

Today is Dec 7th. When I left for work, there was some frost on the cars. For the first time since we moved here. December 7th. First frost. Wonderful.

We all know that Utah drivers are bad, right? At least that is what those of us not from Utah say. Turns out Texas drivers are just as bad. Or maybe even worse. It's a good thing it doesn't snow much here, or else there would be complete chaos.

If you move to Texas you have 90 days to register your car in Texas. Costs like $100. Lame.

Texans drink a lot of beer. And probably other alcohol, too.

Texas is very conservative. Austin is not. A bumper sticker I saw: "If Texas can secede from the Union, can Austin secede from Texas?" Given the option, I would cede to Austin's desire to secede.

That is all I can think of for right now. Probably I will think of more in the future, and then I will write a sequel blog.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

formerly known as Ralphie

I recently joined Facebook. For some reason or another, I felt like I should. I have since tried to decide why I felt that way, and I am not sure. Although I have already had some good conversations with old acquaintances. This post is actually not about that, though.

So we have a cat now, formerly known as Ralphie, currently known as Stella. Elin couldn't let a girl cat have a boy name. Ben and Ryanne couldn't take her to Louisiana, so now she is our cat. She has been a lot of fun; she is pretty crazy. I hesitate to post this, because I am afraid it will look like I am trying to substitute a pet for a child. I generally make fun of those people who act like a pet is the equivalent of a baby, so I don't want to look like one of those people. Truth is, though, she has some child-like tendencies. Like wanting to eat anything I am, even when she has her own food. Or trying to get into every room/area she is not supposed to go in. She also wakes me up at night wanting attention. Let it be clear that I understand she is not the equivalent of having a baby. Here are some fun pictures of her antics.


She runs under these things when I chase her around the house. Then when I turn around to leave, she runs out after me.

She loves to get in the sink. For some reason she is fascinated when I turn the water on. She also does this with the kitchen sink and the bathtub. Just wait until I turn the disposal on, that'll teach her.

Below is a funny progression of pictures. The funniest is when I turn the fruit bowl over and trap her. She loves it.





Playing in the bath tub.

Doing what cats do best, and most.


It's really funny when she squeezes under here. She can attack the mouse from a safe vantage point.




Elin wanted to take this picture. She likes to come lay between my arm and body.

And check out this sweet picture I found.

My beard at its best. I miss it. Luckily it is now Movember...